Giving To Much.
Article Written By Lily
( Psychic | Angel Card Reading | Healer )
Many people who come to me for readings, already have some psychic ability themselves. They have strong and correct intuitions about the situation they are inquiring about, but they want confirmation and support from a reading. The issue
that comes through very often from people who have strong intuitive healing skills themselves is that they are becoming
drained from giving too much in a relationship.
Many of us who are highly intuitive, also have healing abilities. If we are not conscious of healing a romantic partner, we might have a tendency to soak up 'negative vibes' that need clearing from them. When someone who is close to us who is 'zapping' our energy, it is very important to step back
before we embark on a journey where we are simply suffering too much. It is so important that we regularly and consciously take time to heal ourselves. If we don't take the time to reconnect with a sense of joy and peace, we become trapped in a cycle of giving and healing, and feeling constantly depleted. We feel we're not 'getting anything in return' and are glum for
no apparent reason.
If this resonates with you, understand that you are a piece of the divine spirit that fills this universe with light. You were not born on this Earth only to give and to suffer. Joy is an important part of experiencing our connection with the divine. Joy is the spark that fires our soul and leads us to the places that bring us abundance, comfort and ease.
So, before you leap to help others, and lay down all your defences for a relationship that is draining you, stop! Stop, examine and learn from how you are feeling. Are are you acting out of fear, or are you acting out of love? By love, I also mean self-love... an innate knowing from our Higher
Self of what is right for us. Do you feel at peace, or do you feel discomfort?
True healing is pure light, and does not take effort. It will only deplete you if you are stressed and unhappy. Ask yourself, is this relationship actually good for me? Does it bring me closer to my divine purpose, or does it constantly distract me with small worries?
Do not fear letting go. Love is all around you. You will never be short of love if you are in connection with the divine. Love is light, and light is love. We are all children of the light, and we can experience the light it in the simplest if ways... watching the sun shine through glowing leaves, listening to the sound of the wind breathe through branches. Love doesn't
have to come from a particular person or situation. Sometimes we are trying to push ourselves into scenarios that just don't fit, purely because we are seeking a kind of love that is already all around us. We just have to open our eyes, instead of wondering why we're not satisfied by one person or
situation.
We are not meant to force ourselves... we are meant to feel the light and be in flow with the universe. This is a delightful feeling that we can reconnect with through meditation, walking in nature, yoga, gardening, dancing, singing... any activity that brings us back to our core sense of confidence and ease.
So, do not sacrifice your sense of peace for just anyone because you are divine! Your life is a gift... every hour of your life is precious. Use it wisely. Hold onto your grace. Pursue what helps you grow and makes you
happy. You deserve it!
